Fabricate a rule that doesn't exist and cite it as established community policy to gain procedural advantage
The Pattern
Core Mechanism: Transform personal preference into community rule, making opposition appear as rule-breaking rather than legitimate disagreement.
How It Works
Without Policy Injection
With Policy Injection
Private de-escalation possible
Public confrontation required
Conflict between two people
Institutional norms invoked
Can be resolved quietly
Creates public record
Opponent can save face
Opponent must defend in public
The Escalation Mechanism
Transforms preference into rule: "I want this public" becomes "rules require this be public"
Invokes community authority: Opposition now equals violating community norms
Creates verification burden: Opponent must prove the rule doesn't exist
Delegitimizes pushback: Questioning becomes "not understanding how Noisebridge works"
Example: "Bravespace Rule" (December 2024)
The Conflict
Original issue (Stage 2): Disagreement with Justin Morrison about fundraising letter approach.
Justin's Private DM
Justin MorrisonDecember 2024
[Conciliatory message attempting de-escalation via private DM]
Elle's Public Response with Policy Injection
Elle (in Bravespace, public)December 2024
"Bravespace is where Noisebridgers work out differences, not private texts. I have not responded to your private text. I ignored it."
Justin's Objection
Justin MorrisonDecember 2024
"Also @Elle I did not consent for you to respond to my DM with a post here"
The Reality
No such rule exists. There is no Noisebridge policy requiring all conflict resolution to happen in Bravespace rather than private messages. This policy was fabricated to force the conflict public.
How Policy Injection Works
Step 1: Identify a Preference
Determine what outcome you want (e.g., public rather than private discussion).
Step 2: Fabricate Community Norm
State the preference as if it's an established rule: "Bravespace is where Noisebridgers work out differences, not private texts."
Step 3: Invoke as Justification
Use the fabricated rule to justify your actions: "I ignored your private text [because of the rule]."
Step 4: Dismiss Challenges
If questioned, dismiss pushback as not understanding Noisebridge culture (see Pattern 6: Dismissive Reframing).
Why This Escalates Unnecessarily
1. Forces Public Confrontation
Private conflicts can often be resolved through direct communication where both parties can adjust positions without public record. Policy injection eliminates this path by requiring public discussion.
2. Creates Permanent Record
Public conflicts create permanent records that make it harder for either party to save face or adjust their position. Once positions are public, retreat becomes costly.
3. Invokes Institutional Authority
By framing personal preference as community rule, the injector gains procedural advantage. The opponent must now argue against what appears to be established norms.
4. Shifts Burden of Proof
The opponent must prove the rule doesn't exist, which is difficult. How do you prove a negative? Where do you look to verify that a rule was never made?
5. Delegitimizes Opposition
Opposing the fabricated rule makes it appear you're opposing community norms rather than having a legitimate disagreement with one person.
Real vs. Fabricated Rules
Real Community Rule
Fabricated Rule (Policy Injection)
Documented in wiki or meeting notes
No documentation exists
Consensus process recorded
No consensus process occurred
Consistently applied
Applied selectively
Others can verify
Others are surprised by the "rule"
Educational explanations when asked
Dismissive when questioned
Selective Application Pattern
Key Indicator of Fabrication: The "rule" is applied only when it advantages the person citing it, and ignored when it doesn't.
The Bravespace "Rule" - Selective Application
When Public Works Against Elle
ElleSeptember 2025
"I am getting tired of being dragged into Bravespace for the same thing over and over again."
When Elle is Overruled Publicly
ElleSewing channel
"Would this private convo work better in DMs?"
The Pattern
When Elle wants something public: "Bravespace is where Noisebridgers work out differences"
When Elle wants something private: "Would this work better in DMs?"
When Elle is held accountable publicly: "I'm tired of being dragged into Bravespace"
Conclusion: This isn't a rule Elle follows - it's a tool Elle uses when advantageous.
Community Impact
Governance Erosion
Fabricated rules cited as precedent: Future community members may believe the false rule
Confusion about actual policies: Hard to know what's real vs. fabricated
Procedural advantage for rule-makers: Those who fabricate rules gain power
Trust erosion: Community members question whether cited policies are real
Contributor Impact
Justin Morrison: Disengaged from fundraising after public Bravespace posting
Chilling effect: Others may be less likely to engage if conflicts become automatically public
How to Counter This Pattern
If You're the Target
Request documentation: "Can you point me to where this rule is documented?"
Ask others: "Has anyone else heard of this rule?"
Distinguish preference from policy: "That sounds like your preference, not community policy."
Propose verification: "Let's check the wiki/meeting notes together."
If You're a Bystander
Verify the rule: Check wiki, meeting notes, established documentation
Note inconsistent application: "I've seen conflicts resolved privately before."
Distinguish norm from rule: "Some people prefer public discussion, but it's not required."
Support alternative paths: "Private resolution is also valid at Noisebridge."
For Community Governance
Document actual rules: Keep clear wiki documentation of consensus decisions
Challenge fabrication: When false rules are cited, correct the record publicly
Educate on process: Explain how rules are actually made at Noisebridge
Protect flexibility: Resist pressure to formalize everything (real rules vs. flexible norms)
What Makes This Stage-Skipping
Normal Conflict Progression (Stages 1-3)
Stage 1: Disagreement emerges
"I think we should approach fundraising differently"
Stage 2: Private or public debate
Direct message: "Can we discuss this?"
Or public channel: "What do others think?"
(Both are valid)
Stage 3: Action taken
Agree to disagree, or find compromise
Both paths preserve relationship
Policy Injection (Skip to Stage 3-4)
Stage 2: Disagreement emerges
Justin sends private DM to de-escalate
[SKIP - Fabricate rule forcing public]
Stage 3: Unilateral action
"Bravespace is where Noisebridgers work out differences"
Force conflict public, ignore private attempt
Stage 4: Coalition building
Invoke "Noisebridgers" to suggest community backing
Create appearance of institutional support