Claim authority to make unilateral decisions that should require dialogue or consensus
The Pattern
Core Mechanism: Bypass dialogue and consensus by claiming the authority to make unilateral decisions, transforming preferences into pronouncements.
Collaborative vs. Unilateral Authority
Collaborative Decision
Unilateral Authority Claim
Discussion of concerns
Pronouncement of rules
Others can contribute
Others must comply
Resolution is negotiated
Resolution is imposed
Authority is earned
Authority is claimed
Example 1: "If I Say It's Unsafe" (November 2025)
The Incident
Elle raised accessibility concerns about someone working on the patio.
Elle's Authority Claim
ElleNovember 2025
"If I say something is unsafe, then it's unsafe."
EigenVexer's Response
EigenVexerNovember 2025
"Later, you said you came to apologize. But then you told me 'If I say something is unsafe, then it's unsafe'. I replied that this isn't how things work here."
The Authority Claim
Collaborative approach: "I'm concerned about safety because [reasons]. Can we discuss?"
Elle's claim: "If I say it's unsafe, then it's unsafe" (unilateral authority)
Effect: Bypasses discussion, requires compliance
Noisebridge reality: Safety determinations involve discussion and consensus, not unilateral pronouncements
Example 2: "All Tuesdays Are Bad" (December 2025)
Elle's Authority Claim
ElleDecember 2025
"Again, Tuesdays are bad nights to have events at sewing. All Tuesdays."
The Reality
Ms. Judy (actual sewing area authority): Said events were fine with the door closed.
The Conflict
Elle's unilateral claim: "All Tuesdays are bad"
Ms. Judy (earned authority): "It's fine with door closed"
The difference: Ms. Judy's authority comes from role and expertise; Elle claims authority without basis
Example 3: 24-Hour Ban for Romy (May 29, 2025)
Elle's Authority Claim
ElleMay 29, 2025
"I am going to demand you come offf NB discord for 24 hours Romy for making sexist dismissive comments about other women."
The Authority Claim
What Elle claimed authority to do: Unilaterally ban someone from Discord for 24 hours
Actual Noisebridge process: Moderation decisions involve discussion, often through Safety Council
What happened: No one challenged Elle's authority; Romy went silent for 4 months
Result: Unilateral authority claim succeeded through non-challenge
How Unilateral Authority Claims Work
Step 1: State Preference as Absolute
Transform opinion or concern into absolute rule: "If I say X, then X."
Step 2: Frame as Non-Negotiable
Use definitive language: "All Tuesdays", "it's unsafe", "I demand"
Step 3: Act Without Seeking Input
Issue pronouncements rather than starting discussions
Step 4: Succeed Through Non-Challenge
If community doesn't push back, the claimed authority becomes de facto real
Why This Escalates Unnecessarily
1. Bypasses Dialogue (Stages 1-3)
Normal conflict resolution involves discussion:
Stage 1-2: "I'm concerned about X" → "Let's discuss"
Stage 3: "Let's try this approach"
Unilateral authority: Jumps directly to "This is how it is"
2. Creates Compliance or Confrontation Dynamic
When authority is claimed unilaterally:
Others must either comply or directly challenge
Middle ground (discussion) is eliminated
Raises stakes unnecessarily
Forces Stage 6 (threats/ultimatums) response
3. Normalizes Unilateral Decision-Making
If unchallenged:
Community learns that Elle can make unilateral decisions
Precedent set for future authority claims
Consensus-based culture eroded
Others may imitate the pattern
4. Creates Conflicting Authorities
When claimed authority conflicts with actual authority:
Elle: "All Tuesdays are bad"
Ms. Judy: "It's fine with door closed"
Community must choose which "authority" to follow
Confusion about governance
Earned vs. Claimed Authority
Important: Authority exists in communities, but it should be earned through expertise, role, or consensus - not claimed unilaterally.
Earned Authority
Claimed Authority
Based on role (Ms. Judy → sewing area)
Based on assertion ("If I say...")
Based on expertise/experience
Based on pronouncement
Based on community consensus
Based on personal claim
Can be questioned and discussed
Presented as absolute
Consistent with community processes
Bypasses community processes
Examples at Noisebridge
Earned Authority
Area maintainers: Ms. Judy can make decisions about sewing area (community-recognized role)
Safety Council: Has authority to make safety decisions (consensus-granted)
Consensus process: Community has authority through established process
Claimed Authority (This Pattern)
Elle → Safety: "If I say it's unsafe, then it's unsafe" (no role, expertise, or consensus)
Elle → Scheduling: "All Tuesdays are bad" (contradicts actual area authority)
Elle → Moderation: "I demand you leave Discord" (no moderation role)
Why Community Didn't Challenge
Critical Pattern: In documented incidents, community members did not challenge Elle's unilateral authority claims. This silence allowed claimed authority to function as real authority.
Possible Reasons for Non-Challenge
Uncertainty about processes: "Is Elle allowed to do this? I don't know the rules..."
Social risk: Challenging might lead to being targeted with Patterns 1-7
Benefit of doubt: "Maybe she has authority I'm not aware of"
Conflict avoidance: Easier to comply than confront
Previous pattern observation: Saw what happened to Wyatt, Cloud, Romy
The Result
Romy: Went silent for 4 months after 24-hour ban demand
EigenVexer: Did eventually push back on "if I say it's unsafe"
Pattern: Most authority claims went unchallenged
Effect: Claimed authority became de facto real authority
Stage 1-2: Concern raised
"I'm worried about accessibility on the patio"
"Let's discuss what makes it safe"
Stage 2-3: Discussion and resolution
Share perspectives
Find consensus
Implement agreed solution
Unilateral Authority (Skip to Stage 6)
Stage 2: Concern raised
"I'm worried about accessibility"
[SKIP discussion and consensus]
Stage 6: Ultimatum
"If I say it's unsafe, then it's unsafe"
Compliance demanded
No negotiation offered
The Self-Appointed Enforcer Pattern
Broader Pattern: Elle's Self-Appointed Enforcer Role
Unilateral authority claims are part of a larger pattern where Elle assumes enforcement authority without formal role or community consent.
The Pattern Across Incidents
Claims authority to determine what's safe, who should leave, what rules exist
Issues enforcement actions: 24-hour bans, ATLs, demands for compliance
Community doesn't challenge (due to social risk, uncertainty, previous pattern observation)
Claimed authority functions as real authority through non-challenge
Targets comply or withdraw (Romy 4-month silence, Wyatt considered leaving)
Pattern reinforces itself (success of unchallenged claims leads to more claims)
The Result
A de facto enforcement authority that exists not through role, expertise, or consensus, but through pattern of unchallenged claims.