Pattern 8: Unilateral Authority Claims

Stage Jump: 2 → 6

Claim authority to make unilateral decisions that should require dialogue or consensus

The Pattern

Core Mechanism: Bypass dialogue and consensus by claiming the authority to make unilateral decisions, transforming preferences into pronouncements.

Collaborative vs. Unilateral Authority

Collaborative Decision Unilateral Authority Claim
Discussion of concerns Pronouncement of rules
Others can contribute Others must comply
Resolution is negotiated Resolution is imposed
Authority is earned Authority is claimed

Example 1: "If I Say It's Unsafe" (November 2025)

The Incident

Elle raised accessibility concerns about someone working on the patio.

Elle's Authority Claim

Elle November 2025
"If I say something is unsafe, then it's unsafe."

EigenVexer's Response

EigenVexer November 2025
"Later, you said you came to apologize. But then you told me 'If I say something is unsafe, then it's unsafe'. I replied that this isn't how things work here."

The Authority Claim

Example 2: "All Tuesdays Are Bad" (December 2025)

Elle's Authority Claim

Elle December 2025
"Again, Tuesdays are bad nights to have events at sewing. All Tuesdays."

The Reality

Ms. Judy (actual sewing area authority): Said events were fine with the door closed.

The Conflict

Example 3: 24-Hour Ban for Romy (May 29, 2025)

Elle's Authority Claim

Elle May 29, 2025
"I am going to demand you come offf NB discord for 24 hours Romy for making sexist dismissive comments about other women."

The Authority Claim

How Unilateral Authority Claims Work

Step 1: State Preference as Absolute

Transform opinion or concern into absolute rule: "If I say X, then X."

Step 2: Frame as Non-Negotiable

Use definitive language: "All Tuesdays", "it's unsafe", "I demand"

Step 3: Act Without Seeking Input

Issue pronouncements rather than starting discussions

Step 4: Succeed Through Non-Challenge

If community doesn't push back, the claimed authority becomes de facto real

Why This Escalates Unnecessarily

1. Bypasses Dialogue (Stages 1-3)

Normal conflict resolution involves discussion:

2. Creates Compliance or Confrontation Dynamic

When authority is claimed unilaterally:

3. Normalizes Unilateral Decision-Making

If unchallenged:

4. Creates Conflicting Authorities

When claimed authority conflicts with actual authority:

Earned vs. Claimed Authority

Important: Authority exists in communities, but it should be earned through expertise, role, or consensus - not claimed unilaterally.
Earned Authority Claimed Authority
Based on role (Ms. Judy → sewing area) Based on assertion ("If I say...")
Based on expertise/experience Based on pronouncement
Based on community consensus Based on personal claim
Can be questioned and discussed Presented as absolute
Consistent with community processes Bypasses community processes

Examples at Noisebridge

Earned Authority

Claimed Authority (This Pattern)

Why Community Didn't Challenge

Critical Pattern: In documented incidents, community members did not challenge Elle's unilateral authority claims. This silence allowed claimed authority to function as real authority.

Possible Reasons for Non-Challenge

  1. Uncertainty about processes: "Is Elle allowed to do this? I don't know the rules..."
  2. Social risk: Challenging might lead to being targeted with Patterns 1-7
  3. Benefit of doubt: "Maybe she has authority I'm not aware of"
  4. Conflict avoidance: Easier to comply than confront
  5. Previous pattern observation: Saw what happened to Wyatt, Cloud, Romy

The Result

Community Impact

Governance Erosion

Contributor Impact

Culture Shift

How to Counter This Pattern

If Authority is Claimed Over You

  1. Question the basis: "What authority do you have to make this decision?"
  2. Refer to process: "At Noisebridge, we make these decisions through [process]."
  3. Assert collaborative approach: "Let's discuss this, not pronounce it."
  4. Escalate if needed: "Let's bring this to Safety Council / weekly meeting."

If You Witness Unilateral Authority Claims

  1. Question immediately: "Is this how we make decisions here?"
  2. Note the pattern: "This is the third time I've seen unilateral decisions."
  3. Support the target: "Romy, you don't have to leave - this wasn't decided properly."
  4. Reinforce process: "At Noisebridge, we [actual process]."

For Community Governance

  1. Clarify authority structures: Who has authority for what decisions?
  2. Document processes: Clear wiki pages for how decisions are made
  3. Challenge promptly: Don't let claimed authority succeed through silence
  4. Educate continuously: Teach newcomers about actual vs. claimed authority
  5. Protect consensus culture: Actively resist bypassing dialogue

What Makes This Stage-Skipping

Normal Conflict Progression (Stages 1-3)

Stage 1-2: Concern raised
    "I'm worried about accessibility on the patio"
    "Let's discuss what makes it safe"

Stage 2-3: Discussion and resolution
    Share perspectives
    Find consensus
    Implement agreed solution

Unilateral Authority (Skip to Stage 6)

Stage 2: Concern raised
    "I'm worried about accessibility"

[SKIP discussion and consensus]

Stage 6: Ultimatum
    "If I say it's unsafe, then it's unsafe"
    Compliance demanded
    No negotiation offered

The Self-Appointed Enforcer Pattern

Broader Pattern: Elle's Self-Appointed Enforcer Role

Unilateral authority claims are part of a larger pattern where Elle assumes enforcement authority without formal role or community consent.

The Pattern Across Incidents

  1. Claims authority to determine what's safe, who should leave, what rules exist
  2. Issues enforcement actions: 24-hour bans, ATLs, demands for compliance
  3. Community doesn't challenge (due to social risk, uncertainty, previous pattern observation)
  4. Claimed authority functions as real authority through non-challenge
  5. Targets comply or withdraw (Romy 4-month silence, Wyatt considered leaving)
  6. Pattern reinforces itself (success of unchallenged claims leads to more claims)

The Result

A de facto enforcement authority that exists not through role, expertise, or consensus, but through pattern of unchallenged claims.